Want to Do Better- Decision Making

December 27, 2015

It's 3:39 am and I cannot sleep. Thinking too much about life and the choices I've made. Some good some not so good. The price you pay for pursuing the permission of others. Allowing people, random people-even family members who I deem as random people allowed to make decisions for you that are not in your best interests.

As people, we give others too much access, absolutely too much access to the decisions that must be made in our life. Too much access to suggestive thinking, when the decision is entirely yours to make. I ask myself, what will be different in the next few days? What will 2016 bring?

Daily we live as if we control life's clock. In fact, the one who's yet to unveil the mystery of life is the one who has complete control. He sets the time table of life, the beginning, and the end. The thought alone should be disturbing because ultimately, people do not control the very thing they give others to access.

Be careful of who you accept into your life, be careful of who you allow having control over you. Be careful of who has immediate access to your thoughts, because in retrospect you are giving permission to others to control how you think and undermine your perspective in response. The influence the person or persons may have may not reflect your viewpoint.

Do not allow others to waste your time. Your time is valuable.

My last questions are why does it take so much time for people to work out their life challenges? It's the randomness, craziness, foolishness, and debauchery from other people that halts prosperity and productivity in your life. In fact, some parents cause 85 % of their children(s) craziness.

Here's how most parents have not been taught better and therefore parents cannot teach better. It is not until we work out our own limitations that we can do better than what we were taught.

It's simply this, parents cannot do better because no one other than their parents have ever taught them to do better.  I've learned that you cannot be mad at what parents do not know. Heck, you cannot be mad at what others outside of your parents do not know. Just be sure that you learn and do better.

Welcome better for yourself and those that are attached to you by association. Disassociate yourself with those that do not influence you to be better. For their relevance is less developed to do so, thereby have the courage to receive what works and ignore what doesn't. A young person once told me to Live the Life you Love. Thank you.

And to others, I share the sentiments of this very statement: Live the Life you Love, because without your decisions nothing else matters.

-Lavilada

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