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Journal Date: May 21, 2017 Systemic: Relating to the good ole fashion system of the game never changes -just the players. It is the ultimate institution of systemic thinking that hinders the most intelligent individual. Thinking patterns are related to character development. It's one of the few things you realize in this journey of life. I've realized a lot in these past few years. One of them being the unshakable ability to make a decision. It is a very important step. To make a decision is the first step to becoming an independent thinker. Decision making is a threat in many ways. A decision-maker is a critical thinker. A thinker whose identity is deliberately crafted in the choices he or she makes. It is an identity that forms the characteristics of an individual. A decision maker-one who is able to determine right from left or left to right, up or down and down to up. A decision-maker uses her or his ability to understand the circumstance as...

March 30, 2017 If I could do one thing different it would be to work through fear. My fear was something that alerted me to think-hey, I don't think I want to do that or learn that it looks hard. I'd rather play it safe. Safe never gets you anywhere or anything. Don't be afraid to work through fear. It's a scary thing to learn to work through fear. Once I learn to just take one step, then take the next step and take the next step and another step. I realized that working through fear is beneficial. Working through fear is a process.                           You can only see what's next if you decide to take the next step.                                        ...